Still upset over Prop 8 winning November 6, 2008
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Why is it that every time any group feels threatened they play the “Protect the Children” trump card?
I have been thinking long and hard about this since Monday and I have a few thoughts on the subject.
I was recently asked what about children that are adopted? Isn’t it better they are raised by a mother and a father rather than a gay/lesbian couple? That it is a better for the child to have the feminine and the masculine. That a father gives the child something a mother cannot and vice versa.
I responded that that in my experience the “ideal” family is not reality in far too many homes in today’s world. Not all families are loving and wonderful and fuzzy warm.
What if the child is gay? Should they have to be raised just by a woman and a man? How much will they “understand” their gay child?
What if these “straight” parents abuse their children, verbally or physically? Is this the “ideal” home for a child just because the parents happen to be a man and a woman?
What about the child that is raised by a grandmother only? Is the child going to be ruined without that male influence? Can you say Langston Hughes, Louis Armstrong, and Jamie Foxx?
What about the child that is raised by a single mom? Where is the ideal in this?
My husband was raised by a single mother who adopted him and his sister. He is probably the most centered man I have ever known, he knows who he is in his masculinity is comfortable with himself and everyone around him. Was it wrong for his mother to adopt him because she was not married? Should he have stayed in the orphanage because it was only a woman who wanted him and his sister?
And what about children that have a female and a male parent and one of them dies leaving the survivor to raise the child alone? And they choose not to remarry. Should the children be put in an orphanage because there is not a woman and a man now? (I know this is a bit radical)
Isn’t it truly better whoever will love the child the best should be the parent/s regardless of gender/age or ethnicity?
Quit using children to scare people and sidetrack the real issue.
We will win in the future, we will keep moving forward.
We will have equal rights for everyone.
Yes we will.
My Joy is Tempered November 5, 2008
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My joy in Obama winning the presidential election is tempered with Proposition 8 winning.
It boggles my mind that “Christians” that are supposedly taught to love one another and to treat each person as they would treat themselves can produce such hate for anyone who is not exactly like themselves. They cannot tolerate diversity.
These three so called religious leaders sent me a charming email this morning on restoring marriage and protecting children.
Bishop George McKinney
Coalition of African American Pastors
General Board C.O.G.I.C
Bishop Harry Jackson
Chairman, High Impact Leadership Coalition
Rev. William Owens
President, Coalition of African American Pastors
Shame on them for encouraging discrimination of others when they have been discriminated against their whole lives. Shame on them hiding behind Obama’s name and invoking what he said in August. Shame on them for saying love thy brother unless he is gay. Shame on them for saying love thy sister unless she is a lesbian. May God love these three because I am having trouble loving them.
The myths of Proposition 8 – bigotry exposed November 3, 2008
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Los Angeles Times
11-2-2008
No on Proposition 8
Debunking the myths used to promote the ban on same-sex marriage.
November 2, 2008
Clever magicians practice the art of misdirection — distracting the
eyes of the audience to something attention-grabbing but irrelevant so
that no one notices what the magician is really doing. Look over at
that fuchsia scarf, up this sleeve, at anything besides the actual
trick.
The campaign promoting Proposition 8, which proposes to amend the
state Constitution to ban same-sex marriages, has masterfully
misdirected its audience, California voters. Look at the first-graders
in San Francisco, attending their lesbian teacher’s wedding! Look at
Catholic Charities, halting its adoption services in Massachusetts,
where same-sex marriage is legal! Look at the church that lost its tax
exemption over gay marriage! Look at anything except what Proposition
8 is actually about: a group of people who are trying to impose on the
state their belief that homosexuality is immoral and that gays and
lesbians are not entitled to be treated equally under the law.
That truth would never sell in tolerant, live-and-let-live California,
and so it has been hidden behind a series of misleading half-truths.
Once the sleight of hand is revealed, though, the campaign’s illusions
fall away.
Take the story of Catholic Charities. The service arm of the Roman
Catholic Church closed its adoption program in Massachusetts not
because of the state’s gay marriage law but because of a gay
anti-discrimination law passed many years earlier. In fact, the
charity had voluntarily placed older foster children in gay and
lesbian households — among those most willing to take hard-to-place
children — until the church hierarchy was alerted and demanded that
adoptions conform to the church’s religious teaching, which was in
conflict with state law. The Proposition 8 campaign, funded in large
part by Mormons who were urged to do so by their church, does not
mention that the Mormon church’s adoption arm in Massachusetts is
still operating, even though it does not place children in gay and
lesbian households.
How can this be? It’s a matter of public accountability, not
infringement on religion. Catholic Charities acted as a state
contractor, receiving state and federal money to find homes for
special-needs children who were wards of the state, and it faced the
loss of public funding if it did not comply with the
anti-discrimination law. In contrast, LDS (for Latter-day Saints)
Family Services runs a private adoption service without public
funding. Its work, and its ability to follow its religious teachings,
have not been altered.
That San Francisco field trip? The children who attended the wedding
had their parents’ signed permission, as law requires. A year ago,
with the same permission, they could have traveled to their teacher’s
domestic-partnership ceremony. Proposition 8 does not change the rules
about what children are exposed to in school. The state Education Code
does not allow schools to teach comprehensive sex education — which
includes instruction about marriage — to children whose parents
object.
Another “Yes on 8″ canard is that the continuation of same-sex
marriage will force churches and other religious groups to perform
such marriages or face losing their tax-exempt status. Proponents
point to a case in New Jersey, where a Methodist-based nonprofit owned
seaside land that included a boardwalk pavilion. It obtained an
exemption from state property tax for the land on the grounds that it
was open for public use and access. Events such as weddings — of any
religion — could be held in the pavilion by reservation. But when a
lesbian couple sought to book the pavilion for a commitment ceremony,
the nonprofit balked, saying this went against its religious beliefs.
The court ruled against the nonprofit, not because gay rights trump
religious rights but because public land has to be open to everyone or
it’s not public. The ruling does not affect churches’ religious tax
exemptions or their freedom to marry whom they please on their private
property, just as Catholic priests do not have to perform marriages
for divorced people and Orthodox synagogues can refuse to provide
space for the weddings of interfaith couples. And Proposition 8 has no
bearing on the issue; note that the New Jersey case wasn’t about a
wedding ceremony.
Much has been made about same-sex marriage changing the traditional
definition of marriage. But marriage has evolved for thousands of
years, from polygamous structures in which brides were so much chattel
to today’s idealized love matches. In seeking to add a sentence to
California’s Constitution that says, “Only marriage between a man and
a woman is valid or recognized,” Proposition 8 supporters seek to
enforce adherence to their own religious or personal definition. The
traditional makeup of families has changed too, in ways that many
religious people find immoral. Single parents raise their children;
couples divorce and blend families. Yet same-sex marriage is the only
departure from tradition that has been targeted for constitutional
eradication.
Religions and their believers are free to define marriage as they
please; they are free to consider homosexuality a sin. But they are
not free to impose their definitions of morality on the state.
Proposition 8 proponents know this, which is why they have misdirected
the debate with highly colored illusions about homosexuals trying to
take away the rights of religious Californians. Since May, when the
state Supreme Court overturned a proposed ban on same-sex marriage as
unconstitutional, more than 16,000 devoted gay and lesbian couples
have celebrated the creation of stable, loving households, of equal
legal stature with other households. Their happiness in no way
diminishes the rights or happiness of others.
Californians must cast a clear eye on Proposition 8’s real intentions.
It seeks to change the state Constitution in a rare and terrible way,
to impose a single moral belief on everyone and to deprive a targeted
group of people of civil rights that are now guaranteed. This is
something that no Californian, of any religious belief, should accept.
Vote no to the bigotry of Proposition 8.
The semester is over May 28, 2008
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Well, we survived Spring semester 2008, Hooray for our team!
I always read Sunday comics before hitting the discouraging news. This week “Candorville” by Darrin Bell was exactly what I had been aiming for during the semester. If we listen to the media enough we become brainwashed and sway in ways we do not intend. We listen to whispers and doubts enter our hearts. How do we remain strong against this propaganda? If we stop listening completely we become blunted and unaware, more vunerable. If we listen too much, we hear so many opinions and ideas, how do we discern what is true and right? Where is the truth? Which side is right?
With instant communication it is hard to read or hear something and let it percolate in our brains. We hear something and immediately we have an opinion. Most of us don’t stop to think about what it means let alone think or try to find out if it is true before commenting. Look at all the stupid warning emails that float around scaring us into an instant forwarding frenzy. We are a 60 second society and want everything immediately if not sooner.
Why should we have to think when all we want is to be told what to think. Or so we think…until it is to late.
I aim to keep this blog up and running even though English 313 is completed. I will be changing and expanding the format, not just focusing on media hype. I am looking forward to utilizing the tools learned in class and plan to write about whatever is out there I think can comment on in a valid way. Not just ranting, but using insight while being thought provoking.
FINALS WEEK! May 13, 2008
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I know we are all so busy prepping for our finals and for the past few years, around this time of the school year, I always hear about a news story covering the drug Adderall. Adderall, a drug normally used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), has become a popular story amongst news reporters because it is known to be keeping students awake and “interested” in whatever it is they are trying to focus on. People go on to say that Adderall is “a miracle drug” to students because it gives them their fix. I do feel that the story has been “hyped” a lot;I’m sure you have at least heard of the drug or maybe even know someone who uses it as a recreation drug, but it’s a topic that will never really go away. Some student, somewhere, will take drugs to “study” or as a recreation. By college, people know exactly what they are doing and a story doesnt have to be sensationalized as if to say Adderall is a new fad.
Do you think Adderall is over sensationalized?
http://www.northernstar.info/article/3615/
Mother Ship Abandoned May 12, 2008
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Scientology’s richest member, James Packer, has left the group because, according to his friends, he no longer needs it. The Australian billionaire was introduced to Scientology by his close friend Tom Cruise. Packer’s only public quote about the group was in 2006; “I think it has been very good for me, It has been helpful. I have some friends in Scientology that have been very supportive. But I think it’s just helped me have a better outlook on life.”
Packer, a media mogul, has been attempting to expand his empire through online gaming as-well-as casinos in both Australia and Great Britain. But it is this new interest that many believe has caused strife between Packer and Scientology; the founder of Scientology, L. Ron Hubbard, denounced gambling in 1977: “An obsessive gambler is a psychotic just like a drug addict or an alcoholic.”
What is “newsworthy” about this is the fact that each member gives a portion of their annual income to the group. There are dozens of stories floating around, especially in Australia, about the split. Without Packer, it seems as though Scientology will have to look for replacements to fill the void left by the billionaire.
Here’s an in depth article about the split.
“If I were a terrorist” May 9, 2008
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Okay, this is not media hype but a youtube video by James Pence that hits a little to close in the solar plexus. What is happening here in America is frightening and it makes one stop and really think about home grown terrorism and what it implies. Some of these thoughts I have had myself and it is interesting the way this gentleman has put it together.
Stick to your guns, Hilary! May 8, 2008
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How frustrated Hilary must be today hearing nothing but quit, quit, quit. You are ultimately a loser, you are going to make the Democrats lose, so you need to QUIT now and let the big boys play. Girls not allowed any more! It has come down to the wire and we really mean business now. So QUIT.
I say what a piece of brain washing.
Or should I dare to be honest and say what a piece of crap. The media is flooded today with reports that even Hilary’s closest supporters are urging her to quit. Here we have a perfect example of the media (As Adorno would say) shoving false consciousness down the throats of the public and manipulating moment to moment how we feel about a candidate. For the most part, voters are very fickle people. The media takes a little story but has to bake a big one to make their stockholders lick their lips. So a recipe of sorts is started; take a pound of outrageous, add a dash of truth. a dollop of panic, a pinch of sordidness and voila! You have your perfect story to sell papers (or other medium), swing voters minds (again) and scare them out of donating to or supporting a good candidate.
Why should Hilary have to quit her campaign at this time? As they say in opera, it ain’t over til the fat lady sings. This whole presidential campaign has been one of twists, turns and surprises. The media has been unable to predict from the start what is going to happen, they get it wrong and it has been driving them insane. THE MEDIA wants to be able to tell the story the way they want it to play out and not take anything to chance. I think they want Hilary to lose so they are pushing the story to scare us. Who want’s to back a loser? Who wants Hilary to lose more than anything? hmmm. The Republicans? The oil people? The media stockholders? You decide.
Me? I think I am in love with Adorno.
Truth is stranger than fiction. May 1, 2008
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What is the old saying? Truth is stranger than fiction. My mom always used to tell me “Always tell the truth, no one will believe you but it will be the truth.” How right she was then and now.
In wanting to write about media hype and how the media distorts so much of our information steam, I have tried in this blog to focus on that issue. BUT….I find the news so distressing lately and in looking at headlines while absolutely outrageous and seemingly blown out of proportion I find that most of them are true. One of the more horrible items right now is the debacle of more than 460 FLDS children taken into custody in the past few weeks. Reports of child brides pregnant and now reports of the boys possibly suffering sexual abuse as well.
Another outrageous but true event is the Austrian man who held his daughter hostage for 24 years in the dungeon, raping her and fathering 7 children with her while his other family lived in ignorance above them in the house. How low can humanity fall? With all these lunatics in the world who needs to invent outrageous untrue headlines? How can fictitious headlines compete with these stories? No wonder I need to read romance novels to escape from a dismal reality. Truth sucks.
The Miley Cyrus Hullabaloo April 30, 2008
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The 15 year old Disney star recently modeled in a Vanity Fair photospread by celebrity photographer Annie Leibovitz. The photo that caused the biggest uproar showed Cyrus draped in a sheet, bare-backed, with rustled hair. Parents and media alike were in an uproar over the photo; Disney immediately put Cyrus to work on damage control. In a statement through her publicist Cyrus said, “I took part in a photo shoot that was supposed to be ‘artistic’ and now, seeing the photographs and reading the story, I feel so embarrassed…I never intended for any of this to happen and I apologize to my fans who I care so deeply about.”
But before she was lambasted by Disney, Cyrus told Vanity Fair for a caption to go with the photo: “No, I mean I had a big blanket on. And I thought, This looks pretty, and really natural. I think it’s really artsy. It wasn’t in a skanky way. Annie took, like, a beautiful shot, and I thought that was really cool. That’s what she wanted me to do, and you can’t say no to Annie.”
The Christian Coalition of America has gotten after the star through her employers at Disney, demanding she be reprimanded.
By Monday so much media coverage had been aimed at the “racy” photoshoot that the Vanity Fair website crashed due to the millions of people logging on to view the photos.
Many celebrities are up in arms defending the pictures and Miley Cyrus herself. The most complete defense is an article written by Jaime Lee Curtis for The Huffinton Post. She defends Cyrus and to an extent the photographs, while at the same time thrashing Hollywood and it’s mastication of children.
Weather or not you believe this photo is racy, we can all agree that there are more important things going on in the world that deserve at least as much media attention. Right?
The Miley frenzy has garnered attention from MSNBC, Fox News, CNN, as well as many internet sources of global and national news.
At no fault of her own (though partially at the fault of her parents), Cyrus has become Disney’s #1 whore. Reports estimate that the Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montana brand will bring over $1 billion in business to Disney, in this year alone! Last year’s “Best of Both Worlds” concert tour sold $36 million in tickets, which in turn generated a 3D film which made millions more. To protect themselves Disney released a statement soon after the photos appeared on the internet; “Unfortunately, as the article suggests, a situation was created to deliberately manipulate a 15-year-old in order to sell magazines.” But is Disney not deliberately manipulating Cyrus to sell her hit television show, her multi-city concert tour, her numerous movies, and all the merchandising that goes along with it. Disney has done it numerous times before, and they will continue to use and abuse children to make huge profits.
I am not personally offended by the photo and it’s supposed connotations (the fact that she looks like death is more offensive the the semi-nudity), my nieces (aged 7 and 9) are some of the many that are devoted to the Cyrus/Montana brand and they aren’t offended by the photo. What is most offensive to me is this brand that so many buy in to. It represents the systematic destruction of a girl and the anesthetization and brainwashing of a large fan-base for the benefit of a multinational, multibillion-dollar corporation.
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Perez Hilton and his opinions.
